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Ahhh, parents…. This one struck a cord.

This is why my favorite poem in the world is ’This be the verse by Philip Larkin.

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I don't like Florida. Never did, never will. You I like.

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Jul 4, 2021Liked by Ann Landi

Heartbreaking and lovely

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Jun 9, 2021Liked by Ann Landi

Thanks for such a clear dive into the unfolding of a long marriage, always passing through stages that one can't predict. Thanks for keeping the perspective, not always possible at the end.

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Jun 6, 2021Liked by Ann Landi

Beautiful. Awesome.

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Beautifully written. Thank you Ann.

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Beautiful piece. Time to let the ashes rest.....

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wHat a difficult time you had!!!! It's so devastating to see our parents' decline... And you're right!!!! Parents marriages are mystifying....! Great Memoir!!!

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Wow, Ann, so good.

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Great contribution to the series. Very engaging, and It puts your own romances into context.

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This is a beautiful piece. One day we must swap stories about our parents. Best, Susan

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Beautiful Ann

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Powerfully written! Touching story

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Oh, Ann--that was very moving...

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Wow. Parallels abound. Having washed and dressed a friend in this last year, that detail struck me in a way that it won't to anyone who hasn't had that job. You are a great writer.

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Anny—all I can say is “wow.” This piece is so beautifully written and evocative. Yeah—for all his warts, what a true Dude, and she was a true beauty in mind, beauty and spirit. Gotta go shed a few tears now. That’s just how powerful this one is.

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